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Old Sep 24, 2013, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Lmats View Post
The reactions on this thread are funny! No, I've never heard of anyone with BPD being married to a therapist. I mean, we all know that therapists are groaning in their heads when they come across a BPD patient, so I think the dislike is mutual.

No, I never said anything about dislike. I have liked all my therapists (some more than others, admittedly, but I have liked them all) and I think that most of them liked me, though I know that I have been a challenge to them, and have said and done some very hurtful things to them in the course of therapy. But the idea of being married to a therapist....but, in thinking about it, it seems that we really don't think about them as real people do we? Just like the rest of us, they are not their professions, and I doubt that they are "analyzing" everyone 24/7. Otherwise, they'd never have a life outside of work. So, would I marry a therapist? The knww jerk reaction is no. But, would I marry someone who made their living as a therapist? I don't know, maybe. I've never had the opportunity to date one to even see.
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I have heard about your "normal" and it does not sound like fun to me.