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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Very understandable why you're upset about this. Why not just ask him if he would call and without making him feel like he's done anything less than your expectations, let him know you need to hear his voice. put it on terms that will leave it as what you'd like to have not something that hasn't happened. As in maybe make it so he understands that at this point you're realizing how much hearing from him more often and hearing his voice really means. It should work if you make him feel more significant and important to you. Try not to make it sound desperate but matter-of-fact and it will be win win.. he'll get a boost knowing how much you're thinking/needing him and you'll likely get more contact from him!
I don't know how often is right, that's something that would be between you and him.  |
Ah...very good point, and I will have to try this the next time he goes away. I suppose that I'm a bit scared to put it the way you've suggested because (1) I'm not 100% comfortable being vulnerable this way and (2) if I do put it this way and he still does not communicate, then it will seem even more as if he doesn't care about my feelings. I guess that neither one is a good reason to not give it a try though, so I'm gonna have to put on my big girl panties and step up on my side of the plate.