I agree with GeorgiaGirl. Until he gives you a reason not to trust him give him the benefit of the doubt. I do understand how you feel. except I was always the one going out of town. After a few days the anxiety gets pretty bad and I have to do the relaxation techniques my pdoc taught me. If therapy worked for you before I would say keep doing it. Hang in there and remember, we are all in this together and are here to listen.