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Originally Posted by deepestwaters40
(((Peaches100)))
Everything you just said sounds exactly like me right now. Even the closeness and stuff about wanting nurturing comfort. I know the only way its gotten better before is talking to her about it no matter how much I don't want to. Which is something I know I have to do tomorrow and I'm dreading it. Have you talked with her about it?
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Hi Deepestwaters,
I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with this issue as well. It is hard! Yes, I have talked to my t about this quite a bit. M t has said she doesn't have a problem with me wanting to feel close to her, nor with my asking her for a hug if I need one. But I often perceive, from things my t says or does, that she is discouraging that closeness. When it happens, we talk about it, and she invariably says that I have misunderstood her, and that she is not trying to push me away. So maybe it is all in my head, although it "seems" like I am right!