Thanks for the information, support and your stories.

This person comes to my house quite regularly. Used to, I should stay, starting the day I wrote the first post.

I'm not so keen about asking my stuff back, cause we don't have that strong connection as being of the same family, neither we are so young of age that you could think of something foolish.

More than this, in this person's family there is someone dealing with drugs, at some level. I don't know what kind of level and I don't want to know.
So I think I'll be cautious.
I'll take the 'casualties' (she did not take really valuable stuff, though she could have) as something that could always happen for one reason or another, I'll think of some good story to start postponing her next visits till one day she won't be asking anymore, and I certainly won't ask her.

What's bad about it is the feeling of the trust betrayed.
But if she's sick...... I better forget about it and enjoy my sanity, or what's left of it :-)))

Thanks again