Hello Jannie. Maybe you should just be friends at this point until you know what is going on with the relationship. Maybe he can see you more often than the other girl, and he is just making the most of his time since he gets to see her less often. I hope things get better for you soon, I just hope that you dont deceive yourself into believing that there is more going on at this time in the relationship, than what is really going on. It sounds like you have a friend in this pperson that you enjoy, and hopefully in time things will happen on a higher level, but untoil then there is nothing wrong with just being friends, and then letting things happen with time. I really hope the best for you in the future. Take care sincerely Soidhonia