Ohh and another thing, people has to respect your own privacy, by that i mean, having kids is not a game, It's wonderful? yes, it's easy? No at all, it's a lot of rewarding work, but it takes time, energy, and a lot is demanded from you.
So if they want kids, they can have their own, lol, sorry serious matter.
Take your time to make any decisions, when the baby cries at 3:00 am nobody but you and your husband are going to be there.
Hang in there~