Tough decision. I wish you all the best as you make your call, plus strength, courage, and independence.

Just because you draw a boundary, such as I refuse to be treated this way, doesn't require you to stop loving the man. I left my husband, not because he cheated, but because he had too many female friends, and he always had them in my face for comparison's sake, and I just couldn't take it. I left loving him like crazy, but I left. Sometimes you just have to decide who you are, and I decided I'm not a woman who wanted to live with my husband's attention always on other women.