The patience thing is really not working very well for me. I'm almost at the point of wondering if something is actually wrong...but that could just be my anxiety getting the best of me...which is one of my issues to overcome. I almost sent a FB to his younger brother (whom I know, but not very well) but refrained since this could actually be awkward for him and seen as smothering. The brother lives overseas and wouldn't have the same restrictions on phone usage. But, I know that a lot of men don't like their wives/girlfriends checking up on them this way and don't really want to be one of those girls.

But, now I'm starting to get a bit angry that I'm in this position. I could totally see a situation with him that he's reached the maximum on his data plan since he's uploaded pictures from his trip....it would be totally typical that something like this would happen but I'm upset that he'd waste his phone usage this way. Sorry! Just woke up feeling very, very cranky about this and needed to get it out.

I don't know if it's logical, but my brain is at the point of wondering if, for some reason, he's done with the relationship and this is a nice way for him to distance himself. We've had some issues over the last 6-8 months, but they've been mostly due to stress over his business (and his own personal financial situation)...But, I'm wondering if he's just overwhelmed and I'm last in line when it comes to triage...