I get what you mean Dylan. On one hand I see alot of people around who have a high opinion of themselves and are almost unreachable. I frequently witness them take offence when none whatsover was intended, its almost like they like to be kissed up to when the other realizes they have become huffy (for nothing) I blame the tv, everyones a diva these days and so terribly precious. Then theres the other set that cause the harm that seem to like to offend and say things in a tactless way. There are better words then `get over it' `deal with it' a good swap would be `Im sorry you are feeling this way, I dont know how to help' There are ways to say things and being mouthy and wise *** isnt it.