Hi,

I have been married for 10 months now. My husband is very short tempered. I knew him before marriage as well but did not show any symptoms of short temperament earlier than being married.
He gets angry at silly things like not putting a lid on milk pan, not knowing whether there is an extra washing powder in house or not, not removing the plug of the iron box(though it is turned off).
He keeps blaming on and on again though he himself is very lethargic and does'nt help much in household stuff. I am a working woman trying to manage work and household.He shouts like crazy , never ever admits his mistakes and blames me of having short temper inspite of me trying hard to control my anger. I do not see any changes in him and these episodes recurr every 2 months. Hes very moody as well. I am contemplating divorce in my mind as i tried everything possible to sort things and make him understand things. I love him though and also feel he loves me but i dont think il be able to keep taking this from him as change is something that he doesnt think he needs no matter what. I am sad .Please help?