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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
My T is OCD married to a BPD.....i know this because he does a ton of disclosure and compares me to his wife at times. He also does not know much about BPD because he can barely explain it to me. His wife did a year of DBT and he said he read about DBT and thought it was boring. He thinks it helped a little for her but feels she improved because his parts relaxed towards her moods.
Now if he can not help her how can he help me? Oh thats right....I do not have BPD! I am also parnoid she might be on here and figured out I am her husbands client or that he is on here and can figure out this is me. It would really explain his total attitude shift towards me and it is not for the better.
iI have titrated sessions.
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It's not so much that he shared the information with you that bothers me, it's his laissez-faire attitude toward it. Read about DBT and it was boring? It's not a novel! He sounds very un-knowledgeable about it and doesn't sound like he cares to find out more. The fact that he can't help his wife is very telling.
I would see another T, and I think that your decision to do so is a good one.