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Originally Posted by Brooke87
My boyfriend fits this to a t.. My question is how to combat it. He constàntly critics me and tries to tell me I'm a bad person.. He has to be in control.. He has a good heart and I love him .. He justifies his actions by saying I make him.he is soooo good at turning the tables making me the bad guy. Ive tried to be submissive but that doesn't work.. I need help to put him in his place, at the same time leaving him no room to use me as a scapegoat .
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If he is one of us there is nothing you can do. He will take you for a ride that will take total control over you. You will start to believe that you are the problem and he will dominate the relationship and all your thoughts will be planned by him. So stay and lose yourself or go and figure yourself out!!