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Old Sep 25, 2013, 02:25 PM
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Sylveon Sylveon is offline
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Location: Wisconsin
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Originally Posted by Scotty204 View Post
Have you at least skyped eachother or spoke over the phone?
Yes, we have for a few months but I REALLY don't like being on skype nor talking on the phone to anyone so I kinda just stopped. He didn't seem to mind at all though.

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Originally Posted by DylanP View Post
Sylveon, I do think sometimes you feel like you are in love with people you have not met, I feel like this sometimes. I'd hate to think if you don't feel the same it should ruin your friendship with this person. Hopefully his feelings will ease over time but make it clear and be blunt that you are just friends right now. Give it time but if he persists be firm and clear with him.

Yeah I really don't want to lose him at all. He's like my only friend I have.

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Originally Posted by PlatinumHeart View Post
This is tough. I have had lots of online friendships and some of which I can say that I have fallin in "like" with, as in I really like them A LOT.

I'm not going to deny your friend's feelings, but I agree with you, how could he love someone he never met? It seems hard for me. I at least have to talk to them on the phone or skype or whatever, then I could see it happening.

I don't think you should play his feelings off as a joke, that might really hurt him. It seems like you don't feel the same way, so let him down gently. Tell him you don't feel the same way, but you love being his friend. Truth always works, instead of dodgy mindgames.
It's not that I don't like him nor couldn't love him..he's a cool person and if I met him in person I'd gladly date him. But right now I just can't I am waay to focused on getting my life together.