I don't trust condoms anymore. Too many mishaps. Now, you're right about the pill though. I went on it and after a while I noticed a significance in lowered sex drive, but I thought maybe it was just me maturing since I was going into my mid 20s and no longer a "horny teenager." Then I went off of it for 2 months so I could switch brands. I initially switched because they raised the price of my old one so I went on one that was cheaper. When I went off of the pill, my sex drive skyrocketed back up. I mean, I could immediately tell the difference.

So I was worried about going back on the pill because of that. Now the brand I am on, has lowered somewhat but not as much as my old brand. The one I am on now is mononessa, but I'm not sure all brands have the same affect on everyone.