It totally is not fair, (((Hamstergirl))) = no question. But it IS, and that would be such a shame for you to not have your light out in the world.
You absolutely have a right to refuse the medical procedure; I doubt that force would be an issue, (now that you are of age, etc..).
I am continuing to send you positive energy and prayers, dear one.
Most fondly, Peanut
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