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Originally Posted by healingme4me
It may not seem like a joke to him. There is, the notion of falling in love with someone, over the course of years and numerous communications, it may seem to him, that he has developed some really fond feelings for you, based upon what ever it is that you have shared with him, in the past 2 years.
Can't really say, one is compatible with someone, however, until meeting. Need to ensure there is chemistry there, to make sure, it isn't the 'fantasy' aspect of another that is coming to play here.
2 years is a long time, to get to know a person.
What to say or do, advice, you've asked? Why not meet, face to face and get this step out of the way? You'll either love one another, feel no chemistry, or realize it's time to move on.
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I would like to meet up but I am mostly scared that their won't be anything there and he'd just end up leaving and I'll be all alone again. Not to mention that I am not in the best of shape financially, physically, or mentally.
I still need a passport and lose enough weight to even feel comfortable enough to actually meet him. I don't want to be a disappointment. I just don't want to lose him even if their is nothing there.
Bahh..this is all so new to me and I really don't like to feel like this.