Time then to prepare for next contact from him. Your daughter can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline, they would be great for her to talk with. Also she can find out if there are support groups in the area.

She can get a restraining order. She doesn't have to stress out over whether she loves him, or a father for her baby, what she needs to focus on in her survival, her safety, the safety of her baby and you also.

I really really agree with what Trippin wrote earlier. This is serious stuff.

This guy has you both enlisted in his drama. That stuff can be mesmerizing and disguise the fact that these are actually really dangerous circumstances. He needs to stay away from both your daughter and you.

This is a great time to break the spell he has over you and her. Read up on domestic violence, talk to people, find support groups, find another life. Don't let this abusive guy set the terms and write the script anymore.