I think part of what makes this expression of feeling--regardless of the terminology used-- thought provoking is its timing. Is it expressed within a transference, or outside of a transference? Early in therapy or later? In sync with the feelings of the stage of therapy, or counter to them? Context counts for a lot.

I guess as my perspective has changed, it also means different things. At the time, it prompted a shift and moved therapy forward, expressing an acknowledgement of my independence and our interdependence. Earlier, it would have touched a more dependent self in me. Now, with the T dynamic in the past, it feels more like just a simple and warm expression of regard. It doesn't demand anything, it just is.

There seem so few opportunities in life to have such a feeling that I'm content to just accept it.