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Old Sep 26, 2013, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl View Post
Nope. I googled her at the start a couple of times to try to find a website or see if she'd written any articles, and I know to some that's crossing a line, but tbh I google anyone I'm trying to learn/ gain insight from in whatever capacity - lecturers, specialist doctors, sports instructors, etc. So why not a therapist?

It makes me feel stalkerish enough that I'm communicating with her by text/email/call every day like I have done for the past two weeks or so I wouldn't be cut out for being an actual stalker.

I would not be cut out for being a stalker either but really! Googling and investigating someone -- anyone's -- presence in the virtual world on professional sites and posts with relevance to their outlook as a T ..is pretty harmless, IMHO. To gain insight into their perspective on professional matters is certainly warranted. It' s not like you're going through their underwear drawer or something. Give yourself a break here!

Now if you're hiding in the landscaping near their house, with your night vision goggles, that's another matter entirely!
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