Ti,
I'm sorry you're going through all of this, considering how much you've gone through lately...I also can't offer any advice, but you have my friendship, compassion and my ear.
It sounds like you're being invalidated by those whom you need most right now...I can only imagine how hard it must be for you right now.
So, anytime you need to talk you know how to reach me. Will be sending good thoughts in the meantime. Much love.