Why do ypu think you will not be let out with your ed? I was also dealing with anorexia when I was IP, yes they monitored what I ate, the place had cameras everywhere, yes they did discuss it with me and they did try to convince me to eat, but that is about that. I even fainted three times in the halls, which is probably a combo of ap's and not eating while having very low blood pressure. They still did let me out.

Also MM taking time to actually hear what they have to say about the ed is not a bad thing. You have a son that is going to need you around for a long time. And while getting to the point of actually wanting to recover can be very hard, staying in a relationship with an ed is even harder. It is much like an abusive relationship.

Can H's cousin stay with H and see that he is ok?