I am a cook and baker at a nice nursing/assistant home.

The other day I had noticed my manager looking at the food I had been serving to the residents. I think he said something to the Sous Chef and I had heard from one of the co-workers that he is shy to talk to women because he believes they all have an attitude. Which is wrong. I also can't assume this is true.

He happens to stare at people with this blank stare quite often. Though at times if feels uncomfortable because you feel like you may have done something wrong and he just isn't saying his thoughts.

So I am going to speak to him today about that. Something like: "Hey the other day I had noticed you were staring at me in the kitchen. I had felt uncomfortable and want to know if there was an issue that you didn't speak up about."

If he says yes : "Ok, I don't want that to happen again, please speak up so I know and can let you know; so it would be resolved."

If no: "Ok, I didn't want there to be any issues that I do not know of."

"Thanks for having this talk with me."

If any of this is true maybe he'll also know that I am not appreciative of others talking behind my back of criticism. I had another topic on here about the co-workers; most of them talk badly about others behind their back or make fun of them. Not a good environment to be around.