(((((((((Tessa))))))))
I am so sorry you are going through this. I can so relate. My husband (we are currently separated) was/is a gambler, drinker, and all those things. It is so hard and draining. Gambling is an addition and it is not caused by you stressing him out. My husband used to wake me up at all hours of the night for all kinds of reasons, wanted to shop, needed something to eat, wanted to talk, if I didn't get up and humor him then he had no choice but to gamble. He couldn't have possibly gone in the kitchen and made a sandwhich instead of gambling now could he??? It is a hard situation. I will keep you in my prayers.