okiedokie said: "It seems to me you are more interested in promoting your own agenda than in hearing other people's opinions. Back off!
I think if a men's only forum is established, the men you are concerned about serving may only wish to read/post in that forum only and they will be missing out on a good opportunity to LEARN how to interact with both sexes and in general, on a lot of good information to be had in the other forums.
That being said, I personally don't have any objection. But, do you plan to suggest a gays only forum too?"
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boy, i sure am glad i turned my computer off last night and spent time with my pets.
i have a hard time believing that women are reacting as they are, (not responding) to Mellor's feelings that he would like a male only forum. this isn't just "our" play house. (women)
angie, in her wisdom, pointed out that her husband (a man) would benefit from having a spot where he could talk to men. what is so threatening about putting a new forum in? we just put the Spirituality forum in and it's working.
for those who spoke so harshly to Mellors last night, please go back and read your post and see how it translates out to being "supportive".....Mellors has lent support here to everyone as long as i can remember and now people are blowing up on him because he wants something for males?????
and for the women who got into it with each other, how is that looking to you today?
as for hurling into the discussion that Mellors may want a "gay" forum next........that is, indeed, beyond the pale. and an insult to those here who are gay.
i knew it was a good idea last night to turn this thing off but i had no idea how much of a headache it saved me.
Mellors, i still support you and will til the cows come home.......love, pat
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