When I write a reply to someone and I've seen that they've clearly been on the a networking site or website that I sent it on since I sent it, nothing causes me more anxiety than seeing they have not replied. Naturally I panic, wondering was my response not interesting enough? Is this person already bored of me?
I can never help but think in a negative way and it worries me deeply. Perhaps they did not see my message, I think that to try an calm me down. Maybe they are busy and can't get back to me. I try to think of any excuse as to why they never got back to me. After an hour it feels bad but the longer it goes on without response, the worse I feel. People will say this is an immature way to behave but I can't help it. The longer I get no reply the more my anger grows towards this person. I dunno, I wish I could just relax over this.
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