Thanks for your advice and I guess you're right...I just don't really know if I should even allow him to come back into my life if he reaches out to me when he's ready. He's hurt me so much now and as far as I see it he's now had 2 chances and has broken my trust again and I don't know if he deserves another chance.

I know he's not a bad guy, but as you say, he should have known better than to sleep with me if he wasn't over his ex. Especially when he knows how emotionally sensitive I am...we even discussed my suicide attempt and me being treated badly by guys.