I've only got one question ... Do you and your husband know where each of you begin and the other ends?

If y'all've become so totally enmeshed in each other that you no longer have proper personal boundaries, then you are of absolutely no use to yourself, each other ... And, most importantly, your child.

No disrespect intended, it's just the impression I get.

From my own experience with that kind of dynamic and miasma within my own family of origin, I can honestly say that nothing good is ever going to come of it.

Sometimes the people, places & things we desire to hang on to the most end up being the very things that end up killing us.

And, if it ends up killing us, then what was the point of any of it in the first place?