Kim, I'm so sorry about all the stress right now. My parents are not doing the best these days either - my mom fell last year and still hasn't really recovered from it at her age.
I'm sending lots of positive supportive thoughts your way. {{{{{{{{{{{{Kim}}}}}}}}}}}}}
<font color=red>Don't you just hate it when life doesn't follow the manuals? - Author Unknown</font color=red>