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Old Sep 29, 2013, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Zwangsstörung View Post
If your therapist were to be angry at you, for telling her something that distresses you, then she would be pretty useless, in my opinion. I'd tell her; you guys don't have to work on it, but simply telling her and getting a quick view on it, might help you a bit.

I imagine there's some sort of history that links you to this obsession with paper-cuts.

That would maybe hurt me if a partner were to tell me that, albeit probably gradually, and quietly. Sometimes I tell myself that, but when someone else says it to you, particularly at a vulnerable time, it can sting a bit, or at least, that's how it goes for me.
It does hurt, yes. If I tried to explain to him he just couldn't understand. He knows I'm mentally unwell and accepts me for it.he'll just never know the actual feelings of it.

When I was about ten or eleven I took a razor blade and cut my finger open to see what it would do. I was freaked out for Weeks after. It might stem from that, I really hate finger cuts.
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