The you're not really ill card grates my nerves.

It always has.
Yeah, that bothers me, too. So often I hear that "At least you've got X.." line. And I feel the same way when I hear it. That I could point out the other things I'm missing.
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Love is..
a baby smiling at you for the first time
a dog curling up by your side...
and your soulmate kissing your forehead
when he thinks you're sound asleep
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