I get that and I respect that, its just that we don't know exactly how it played out and so shouldn't impose our boundaries or baggage for that matter on the poster.

What if, just what if he's a very nice guy who in an awkward moment said something stupid to a girl he liked? Should he be written off for putting his foot in his mouth? And just because we may have had bad experiences doesn't mean this is such an experience.

The poster is at an impressionable age and should be discovering her own boundaries instead of adopting those of strangers with probably very different life experiences.

Idk, I just like to look at all angles and consider all options before imparting info that may influence someone elses life. I'm not trying to belittle your post or your experience, just asking you to have an open mind until the poster says the teasing boy is a mean jerk and she doesn't know why she is even considering him as her date...