Good for you that you're seeking help! I finally made that decision myself.

IMO, you need to be completely honest with your MD so you can get the proper care. If you leave out things, or make it seem it's not as bad as it is to you, you may not get what you need.

There's a chance that you may "get passed around" if your doctor prefers you see a specialist with some of your problems. And, yes, sometimes you need to keep reminding your doctor that you want something taken care of NOW. Don't forget they are human, too, and can forget or not hear you completely on something. Sometimes they forget to tell you or don't think they need to tell you why they think something is more important than another.

I've never had any trouble with a doctor allowing my husband to be in the room. Take your girlfriend with you if you think her presence will help.

Good luck! Don't give up!