Ugh I am truly sorry, you have enough going on without that.

That is typical behaviour that my mother pulls. I know it stings badly, and I think you are correct not to implode on her. It will probably do more harm than good even if it would feel good momentarily. It really hurts to get burnt so bad by someone you love who you have tried to help. Maybe she will realize and maybe she won't but hold your head high BRN. You are a good strong women, don't let her make you doubt that for a second.

Other people often do see it for what it is as well. I am sure they probably think to themselves "wow that was pretty cruel". Whomever she was posting this to might very well be silently shaking their heads right along with you. The truth shall always set you free one way or another. hang in there.