Hi jacq10, my T says the exact quote! And I've always found it so special and comforting coming from her. She also says, "learn how to love yourself, and you'll learn how to love others". That has helped me a lot, especially when it comes to the old tapes that are still in my head - thanks to my parents. Learning how to love me, and putting me first to take care of others better, are things I've learned from my wonderful, great, beautiful T.

JFN!