Ugh. What a horrible thing for her to do.

If it'll make you feel better, here's something my mom posted on facebook about me: "hmmm, how should I play the card I just got dealt !!?? hurt feelings vs totally pissed off!!!" -- she broadcast to the world that she was going to manipulate me. I had, for the only time ever, asked to borrow a bit of money. To go back to 'home' to VISIT family for the summer instead of going on holiday - and just needed the money for a few weeks so I could get a good deal on a flight. But they lived like 8 hours away from the rest of my family, so I said I wasn't heading out to their house and instead suggested they come to visit everyone too.

My mom opted to refuse to talk to me for about two months, and told EVERYONE ELSE that I had demanded to be GIVEN the money and that I was also demanding they pick me up at the airport and drive me there - and then she said I was refusing to see them.

It resulted in the fact that I actually did refuse to see them. And then they did invade my sister in law's house to impose themself on me.

So... I get the manipulation. Just ignore it. Take her off your fb if you have to (or figure out the setting that'll stop showing the thing she posts... and put her on a limited permission thing so she can only see SOME things that you post).