So true. Many a time when we have things on our mind or are indeed depressed, bathing is such a dreadful chore. I sometimes drag myself to the bathroom. If you have the time a bath is the best idea, lots of your usual bubbly stuff in it. Bath because you can lie there for a while and you are getting clean doing little and will only need a quick essential wash. I even wash my hair in it then quick final rinse with water. Shower... by time, set your phone for 5 mins on the timer mode and put it where you can see it, the crazy rush to get clean can get your energy going too. Just dont slip over.

Thinking of you, hope it goes well for you both.