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You are not going to be yelled at. It will be addressed. We often say what we really mean when we are drunk but usually do not have the balls to say them when not drunk sooooo she will want to discuss what the content of the email might have meant. She also might discuss boundaries in regards to sending emails and set up rules. Either way you are going to feel icky about the situation until it is over.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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