Thanks for all the replies everyone. I do not feel so alone now. All the ideas and thoughts are great.
The idea of doing nothing helped ease my anxiety a little. That helped me decide a bath was doable.
My husband's cancer is still gone. They will do monthly checkups for 6 months and every year after that.
In the past, sometimes only the hair gets washed. Baby wipes keep me from getting too smeely
I have had to make so many decisions lately that I just could not think anymore.
Got to go, I'm falling asleep at the keyboard.