Kirby777,
Thank you for asking this question. I'm sure it's been for different reasons - to check my "temperature" (how are you? do you miss me? etc.) or to see if she could have me to fall back on. No thanks. I mean, seriously what kind of sh**ty girlfriend does webcamming behind her boyfriend's back? And that was just one thing she did that was disloyal. I just so badly want my justice.

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. It's really validating to hear that yes, I have some reason to be angry, that I'm not just completely blowing things out of proportion.I have my own core stuff to deal with. And for the first time in my adult life I've been out of a relationship for over 2 months. It's really really really scary doing it alone, but a lot of this stuff came to a head with her. And fortunately for me, I feel like I have good self-awareness to conquer my issue...at least that's what keeps me going. Sorry if that's TMI. But yeah...strong stuff and I can't let it get the best of me. One day at a time.

duende