You mentioned something that I definitely connect to... I hate when people ask if you cut, and just because the answer is no, they assume that means si isn't on the table, or isn't as big of a deal... Before I started cutting up my hands, I would burn myself, and people just assume it wasn't as bad because of it... Unfortunately, I kind of gave into and started cutting, but even now, it's so common, people still kind of blow it off because I don't do it with suicidal intentions... It still matters, and it still sucks...