I'm just starting to come to realize just how different my "different sides of me" actually are. Working with this new T and having to describe it all makes it a bit more apparent that they are mutually exclusive most of the time. I have not done anything with it all yet, but just working to build trust with her in general. I hope your work goes well. I too only find stuff about DID, and I do not fit those criteria, but have been dx DDNOS by a therapist a 2 therapists ago (only been about a year). We never really worked with it, as she dx shortly before I moved across the country. The intern I had did not focus on the PTSD so much as crisis management. I will get a chance to work more on all of it with this new T. Hoping it all goes well in the long run.
Sorry, I talk too much sometimes. Good luck.