I hadn't considered that maybe his wife encouraged him to push me out. :/ But maybe you're both right - maybe if he continues to work on his marriage and it gets better, she'll be more secure and maybe we can start slowly again.

I was on vacation last and I was so used to picking up cheesy, dorky gifts for my friends that I picked up this ridiculous cheap thing without thinking anything other than, "He'll crack up when he sees this." It wasn't until I got to the register that I remembered.