Hi, I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. I am actually going through the same thing. I am Bipolar II w/mixed episodes. Diagnosed a few months ago. Ever since the diagnosis, our fights are getting worse, instead of feeling support from my husband- I feel like he uses my being "Bipolar" as a cause to EVERY fight, & or diagreement. At least your husband cares enough about you to do research, that really says a lot. It means he is trying to give you the support you need. Honestly I dont know if marriages can work for us Bipolar spouses. I have a terrible suspision that my husband just doesnt love me as much since learning of my diagnosis. I think he's going to use my being Bipolar as a reason to end our relationship... I feel so scared, alone, angry, & like u... utterly depressed.....