Yes Marriages can last . Your spouse can only educate themselves so much .. no one can really understand Bipolar unless they have it. If you know your having problems you need to take as many steps as you can to handle it. If your feeling angry or snappy go for a walk or a run anything to burn off some of the emotional issues your dealing with. When your depressed find anything to smile about , sometimes just get outside and taking a walk can lift your spirits and if nothing else some fresh air and sunshine never hurts .

Everyone is responsible for there actions and well being regardless of Bipolar or not.

What honestly has me confused is why in the world your on 20 pill a day That is what I would discuss when you see your doctor... That amount seems excessive ! Sometimes less is more.

Good luck I hope you find some relief !