Jyst as the title says thats my issue and i just made the decision to when i move out of the homeless shelter im not moving in with him im (God willing) going to a place called the oxford housr that is for recovering addicts who all work pay part of the rent are a group of woman that are rhere for each other so i hope to learn indepence there while i talk to my d+a counseler and my therapist.....i guess i just want any copeing tools and tips trick whst not to dod what to dos ect.