I can respect the ladies' opinions who feel that it's no big deal or even that it's flattering for men to leer at them. We are all different and have had different experiences in life that will make us have different reactions/emotions/and feelings to the same experience. So, while my reaction to this behavior is different than "boys will be boys", I can understand how other see it's no big deal. For me personally, when I am being leered at it pisses me off as I feel like I was not put on this earth so this perv can leer at me. I do not exist so this filthy old pig can stare at me and imagine doing nasty things to me. Look at something else, you pig, cause I don't exist for your viewing pleasure. I think we all have different experiences and personalities that shape the way we react to these situations. But yeah, the man with the wife and kids staring makes me sick.