I am the End..When a man is leering at a ladies chest its not flattering at all. He isnt looking at yours or mines, hes looking at the objects themselves as though they were floating in air. Hes not looking at whos attached them (in the exact circumstances I stated in 1st post- the older man bored of his children chattering in the car)

When a man looks at you from head to toe, quickly or goes back to your face, thats the better/flattering version. Hes looking at the whole package and hes looking for/at a person as a whole.

There are men who pick women by their breast size alone, seriously, would you want to be with a man so .......... (fill it in yaself)

If you are a woman you are a woman. A real man can see the feminine no matter what. Its not about boobies, short dress, blahblah. Cod, Im glad I dont put myself on display- every man including the creepy ones would think I was saying hey look at me, please!! Re your thinking no one looks...Im sure someone is noticing, you just arent noticing them.