I agree. Saying I love you to someone does tend to be a throw away line these days. People think they can say that and everything is great, but you're right you need to do things to actually express this love. Like sticking around and supporting us when we need it, helping us out in bad times. Hell, just a call every now and then for a chat. Some people just don't get this. And I'm sorry that you have had to experience this first hand.