When 40 year old men leer at my 13 year old daughter for 2 min straight that is when I will worry. Women are not talking about a 2 second glance here as far as I can tell.....

At least one positive thing, it's a quick heads up about what men I don't want to interact with and would rather avoid. Women are also visual creatures, a huge portion of women do not leer tho. Don't have a clue where the myth that only men are visual came from, but it's always a popular argument used.

I also didnt think it was ok to use the mens forum to cross the boundaries of these forums, bypassing the rules.